If you've been keeping track of Fantasia Barrino's reality show that airs on VH1, I'm sure my title for this entry is like music to your ears. Recap for those of you faking like you don't LOOOOOVE reality t.v.: Fantasia has a 27 year old brother who:
- Has NEVER had a job.
- Lives in Fantasia's house.
- Drives a Chrysler 300 that she purchased.
- And spends her money like a crackhead who just hit the lotto.
Why? Well that's where my title comes in to play. You can not raise a man by telling him yes all of the time and giving him everything his sorry, lazy, trifling heart desires. Fantasia is not his mother, she's his sister; and out of love, when you are able to give someone that you love, things that they want, it can make you feel good. BUT LADIES YOU MUST STOP!
No disrespect to our mothers of boys; but how is it that they expect soooo much from their daughters and require nothing of their sons? The same sons that grow up to be old ass boys who never want to hear the word "No", and run away from EVERYTHING at the first sign of struggle or commitment.
Here are some tips:
- If you have a grown ass man living in your house and all he's doing is eating, sleeping, sh*ting, and spending your money .... You are no better than the common ho on the street. (Phrase ring a bell: "Bitch betta have my money!"
- Should you meet a guy and he's always saying "Ma," this, and "Ma," that .... take a damn hint. That's all his immature ass is looking for; another mother.
- Family or not ..... know when to say NO! Do not work for your dreams and reach your destiny, just to end up destitute by some sorry dude that's trying to ride you coat tails.
JUST TAKE A LOOK...
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